The Ivy League Dilemma: Faith, Education, and Parenting

As parents, we face a myriad of decisions that will shape our children’s futures. One question often asked is whether we need to send our kids to Harvard. Should they attend other Ivy League schools? This question is not just about education; it encompasses our values, our faith, and our hopes for our children.

Growing up, my father instilled in me the belief that education was a gateway to success. He encouraged me to pursue academic excellence but also urged me to consider the stability of my future career. Now, as a husband and father, I find myself reflecting on how to instill these same values in my children.

My wife and I often discuss our educational aspirations for our kids. While I see the value in Ivy League schools, I am also wary of their increasingly liberal agendas. I resonate with Voddie Baucham’s perspective. He believes that sending our children to these institutions without grounding them in faith can lead to unintended consequences. 

My wife stresses the importance of keeping our children close to home. She also wants them to develop practical life skills. She believes that education should not just be about prestigious degrees. It should be about fostering character, resilience, and a strong faith foundation.

As we navigate these choices, we ask ourselves:

– What does success look like for our family?

– How do we ensure our children are leaders in their communities while remaining true to their faith?

– Can we find educational opportunities that align with our values without compromising on quality?

Ultimately, our goal is to raise children who are not only academically prepared but also spiritually grounded. We want them to have the tools to navigate life’s challenges. They may choose to pursue a trade. Alternatively, they might decide to attend an Ivy League school. Another path could be forging their own way as entrepreneurs.

As we continue to explore these questions, we invite you to join our conversation. How do you balance faith and education in your family? What choices have you made, and what lessons have you learned along the way? In this ever-evolving landscape of education, it’s essential to stay true to our values. At the same time, we must seek the best opportunities for our children. Together, we can navigate this journey with purpose and intention.

Author - Bus Obayomi