The Ivy League Dilemma: Faith, Education, and Parenting
As parents, we face a myriad of decisions that will shape our children’s futures. One question often asked is whether we need to send our kids to Harvard. Should they attend other Ivy League schools? This question is not just about education; it encompasses our values, our faith, and our hopes for our children.
Growing up, my father instilled in me the belief that education was a gateway to success. He encouraged me to pursue academic excellence but also urged me to consider the stability of my future career. Now, as a husband and father, I find myself reflecting on how to instill these same values in my children
The Success of Indians in America: A Fascinating Journey
As a child, my earliest memories of Indians were shaped by watching colorful Indian dramas and movies. I was captivated by their ability to blend acting with singing, and I can still recall some of the phrases that resonated with me. I would often imitate their performances, enchanted by the vibrant culture portrayed on screen. However, as I grew older, my fascination shifted from their cinematic contributions to their remarkable success in America.
From Cinematic Stars to Business Leaders
Today, Indians have established themselves as a formidable presence across various sectors in the U.S., from owning small mom-and-pop stores to managing motels. The adage, “The Patels own the motels,” humorously captures the entrepreneurial spirit that many Indians have embraced. This success is not merely anecdotal; it is a testament to their resilience and determination.
A decade ago, Ivy League professor Amy Chua examined the intrinsic and extrinsic motivations that drive specific groups toward success. Her insights shed light on how both superiority and inferiority complexes can propel communities to excel. This dynamic is evident in the Indian community, where a culture of mutual support and collaboration thrives